Please note that I respect my friend's privacy and would like to keep all names anonymous...
I could only imagine. I have been through countless "miscommunication" moments with various guys and STILL continue to go through them. If miscommunication falls on my lap where I'm fully ignored; I dont let it bother me anymore. When it comes to men I try to differ from being too attached and expecting the "could HE BE THE ONE" feeling. I dont believe there is anything wrong with it either. If someone is interested they will do whatever it takes to get a hold of you. Intrigue and lust are huge factors when it comes to meeting someone new. The key to keeping it going is the difficult part and I unfortunately have no answer for you. I personally do not make any outreach to anyone because I simply cannot afford to be denied EVER. I'm a brat. Simple as that!
As we travel through this world fully independant on ourselves; we long for love and the feeling of being wanted by someone else. You can't beg or plead with anyone to give you more than 5 minutes of their time, lead alone with a commitment. Two people truly need to be in the right place at the right time. Cupid will see that and strike you so damn hard. I'm staying away from THAT GUY, as he's striked me with too many mishaps!
Let's be realistic. No matter how hard Disney tried to help us believe in a fairy tale relationship; we will NEVER live happily ever after with anyone. We don't live in a cookie cutter society; especially in an industry that is infultrated with sex, lust, and vices that cause us to forget about reality. I don't know what's considered ideal now at days; cheating or a HUGE EGO! We have to live with the idea of loving ourselves and appreciating the good in people in the moment. Dont expect anymore from anyone than you would expect of yourself.
LOVE. Yourself. Only....and if someone is interested...Let. Them. LOVE. You!
Mk.
