LISTENING is an important skill that many of us take for granted. Have you ever explained a problem to someone and received an answer that showed that he or she didn't understand the problem at all?
A big part of listening goes beyond getting the main point and drawing conclusions. Listening empathetically, or with feelings, means putting yourself in the talker's position without getting emotionally involved.
Empathic listening precedes effective feedback because it goes to the root of the concern: the other person's perspective. Listening only to obtain information and form opinions means missing much of what the speaker is saying -- the emotions and intensity that make up real communication.
Believe it’s important to walk away from a situation with peace in every light. Taking the energy to dramatize an event, or dwell in the past about negativity is just a waste of time. Time that is better spent with people that make you happy, help you enjoy the one life you have to live, and help you grow as a person.
Hope we all take the time to listen a little more clearer. It makes that much of difference.
I love you all for your support as you know I am here for you at any hour of the day via phone! ;) I appreciate the advice and love. Please know I wouldn't trade anyone in!
Mk.
